(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ HEY YOU! ♥
Yes you.
Are you tired of wondering where to find me? which muse i might be on right now? Well i got the D E A L of a life time for you. FOLLOW MY MULTI MUSE ＦＯＲ ＦＲＥＥ and you NEVER have to wonder again.
this blog features muses form all over the place.
So if you like the sound of that, then Follow me, and if you are now thinking: But Lise, i already do, what do you want me to do?. if that’s the case, i’d love you to Reblog this so other people can do the same?
(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ HEY YOU! ♥
Yes you.
Are you tired of wondering where to find me? which muse i might be on right now? Well i got the D E A L of a life time for you. FOLLOW MY MULTI MUSE ＦＯＲ ＦＲＥＥ and you NEVER have to wonder again.
this blog features muses form all over the place.
So if you like the sound of that, then Follow me, and if you are now thinking: But Lise, i already do, what do you want me to do?. if that’s the case, i’d love you to Reblog this so other people can do the same?
(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ HEY YOU! ♥
Yes you.
Are you tired of wondering where to find me? which muse i might be on right now? Well i got the D E A L of a life time for you. FOLLOW MY MULTI MUSE ＦＯＲ ＦＲＥＥ and you NEVER have to wonder again.
this blog features muses form all over the place.
So if you like the sound of that, then Follow me, and if you are now thinking: But Lise, i already do, what do you want me to do?. if that’s the case, i’d love you to Reblog this so other people can do the same?
(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ HEY YOU! ♥
Yes you.
Are you tired of wondering where to find me? which muse i might be on right now? Well i got the D E A L of a life time for you. FOLLOW MY MULTI MUSE ＦＯＲ ＦＲＥＥ and you NEVER have to wonder again.
this blog features muses form all over the place.
So if you like the sound of that, then Follow me, and if you are now thinking: But Lise, i already do, what do you want me to do?. if that’s the case, i’d love you to Reblog this so other people can do the same?
(っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ HEY YOU! ♥
Yes you.
Are you tired of wondering where to find me? which muse i might be on right now? Well i got the D E A L of a life time for you. FOLLOW MY MULTI MUSE ＦＯＲ ＦＲＥＥ and you NEVER have to wonder again.
this blog features muses form all over the place.
So if you like the sound of that, then Follow me, and if you are now thinking: But Lise, i already do, what do you want me to do?. if that’s the case, i’d love you to Reblog this so other people can do the same?
⍤ : What does your muse’s voice sound like? Is it light? High pitched? Scratchy? Deep?
✍ : What is your muse’s handwriting like? Is it neat? Sloppy? Fancy?
☕ : Does your muse prefer coffee or tea?
⌚ : Is your muse good with keeping on schedule for meetings, appointments, or events, or are they always late? Or, are they always a bit early?
♿ : Has your muse had any injuries in the past?
☺ : What is your muse’s smile like? Do they smile often?
⚡ : How does your muse feel about storms? Are they afraid of them, or do they calm them?
⚠ : How does your muse react to possibly dangerous situations? Do they face them head-on, or do they plan out their actions first?
☃ : What is your muse’s favorite season? What about their least favorite season, if they have one?
☂ : Does your muse like rain?
☼ : Does your muse like daytime or nighttime more?
🏨 : How well does your muse sleep?
❤ : What are your muse’s thoughts on love? If they are not in a relationship, do they believe that they will ever find a perfect someone for them?
☘ : Does your muse believe in luck? How about fate?
⚯ : Does your muse have good eyesight? If not, what is it like? Are they nearsighted or farsighted? Or both? Do they use glasses? Or do they prefer contacts?
👓 : If your muse wears glasses, what are their glasses frames like?
♨ : Does your muse have good table manners? How do they feel about bad table manners?
❀ : What is your muse’s opinion about flower crowns?
♬ : Does your muse sing well? Regardless of whether they sing well or not, do they enjoy singing?
📐 : Is your muse good at math? Do they like it, or do they hate it?
♞ : What is your muse’s favorite animal?
εїз : How does your muse feel about bugs and insects?
📱 : Does your muse prefer calling or texting?
☆ : Of the sun, stars, and the moon, which is your muse’s favorite?
ツ : Does your muse prefer lots of friends, or just a few close ones?
✝ : Is your muse religious?
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written by Lise
why passive aggression in roleplaying doesn’t work :
“#going to leave this starter here #not like anyone cares” “#btw here’s this cool thread that no one is responding to :)” “#maybe i should just leave haha” “#oh look another thread for you to ignore”
yes. it sucks being ignored. it’s no fun not having plots and not having people respond to your threads. but guess what? being passive aggressive and bitter about it makes any desire i had to dig through the dash to find your starters go from 10 to 0 real quick. why? no one wants to deal with a salty person. especially if you tend towards the anxious side, tags like the examples given above induce really bad feelings, the kind that would make me sooner close out of tumblr for the night than reply to your bitter post. nobody wants to feel guilty, called out, responsible for your bad attitude.
no, i’m not saying you shouldn’t call attention to your lack of fitting in or your lack of replies. it’s okay to bring it to peoples attention! but consider that it’s not always on everyone else to serve you meaningful plots or threads. sometimes, all it takes is messaging people to get them to plot with you! have a few ideas and you’ll be all set. other times, it’s necessary to look at your starter; maybe it’s hard to respond to. examples: open text threads where the other persons character is presumed to know yours, or godmodding starters where they might have to stretch their character OOC just to reply. if that’s the case, it’s no wonder no one’s responding. ask maybe why people aren’t responding instead of accusing them. if the answer is that they can’t respond, fix it.
there is also a way to ask for plots and threads that avoids being passive aggressive or bitter at all! sometimes, people miss a starter, drop threads or they just have too many threads they’re juggling already to respond when you first post it. we’re all busy and attention is a limited mental resource. consider making a separate post saying “hey! i made a starter here that no one’s responded to yet. i would LOVE to get threads going with more of you and if you’d like to plot something before you reply, feel free to message me!” see how open and positive that might be? encourage, don’t shut down or assume.
stop driving anxious roleplayers away from you because you can’t contain your bitterness. i know its hard being ignored – i get ignored too. but i never ever would try and guilt trip the players in a group with whom i am trying to make friends. that’s the quickest way to get them not to respond to your starter and to avoid your salty self for the duration of the rp experience.
this has been a rant. and feel free to disagree but i had to get it off my chest.
